I Have Scars And They Are Deeper Than You Can Think

There is nothing worse than writing pain away with pain.

I kept looking at the constant blood dripping and I didn’t even faint. My index, ring and little finger started going numb. And it’s somewhere here that I felt this sharp pain which jolted me out of the trance. I realized what I had done. And yet after all this it didn’t feel anything. My heart still bled.

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A year ago I slit my wrist. It has 7 deep scars left from that day. The first time I did it, it pained a lot. It was scary and it hurt real bad. And yet after that, I went on to have 12 more. You wonder why? At times even I do.

It is not that I’m some psychotic sadist who loves to see herself drenched in blood, it is just that doing such an act calms me and I forget how painful it was at that very moment. ‘That moment‘ which almost choked me to death (because I couldn’t breathe and I wanted to).

It takes a lot of guts to cut yourself open. Don’t demean those who did it. You only add to the hidden pain. 

Some say that I’m crazy and I love to hurt myself. I’m not. Even I feel pain and you think people like me love to see these scars (for a lifetime) every time? At every hour of the day? NO, I don’t like to see them. And somewhere I really wish they disappear with time so I forget I did something so dreadful.

I understand that these scars will stay with me forever and won’t leave me whenever I want them to. And that I give it so much power to affect me. And when those prying eyes come for some juicy gossips these scars just won’t change their position. But at that very moment, nothing seems like a better absolute solution than hurting myself.

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I read an article which said “harming self-releases endorphins aka natural opiates. These chemicals are your natural painkillers and give you a sort of rush- just like the drug opium; that’s why it feels so good” I could just immediately connect with what it said.

It is right, that exactly at that moment nothing feels better than feeling your own physical pain, but it doesn’t mean we don’t understand other emotions. Others still might think that I need psychiatric help because I have mental issues and I know it would make sense to many but to me, all I need is- to be heard. At that very moment when I withdraw myself from the world, somewhere that hope faintly flickers that someone would want to talk to me NOW and STOP ME from doing this. No one does. NEVER.

What’s worse after being hurt and carrying these scars is when other scratch them with their sharp tongues and bloated minds which lack any sort of empathy. And when these scars are only a matter of gossip and curiosity for others, it hurts more. For people who have seen my scars, everyone, EVERYONE only wanted to know “oohhh… how did it happen?” in an utter unempathetic tone.

The last thing I would like to hear is “people who hurt themselves and who commit suicide are losers. It’s a cowardly act. A shame on their existence“. Sir/Mam, if you even bothered to understand the pain of that person who is still standing in front of you after all s/he had to endure. Then, no one is stronger than her/him. S/he came back to live life. To get back that urge. You understand how much it takes? No, you don’t. Because you don’t have guts to endure that much pain and still have the urge to live a life worth that smile they own.

But still for them, talking about these scars is just another thing from their boring day. For them understanding me is ‘understanding what motivates me to do this’. For them, these scars only mean “a suicide attempt”. My friend, it was and yet it wasn’t.

I remember how once a friend, who saw my scars for the first time, reacted. A smirk, with some level of excitement and curiosity, “Woah…bro what is this?”.

Seriously? A smirk? You can see these are scars. You can see they are more than one. I know you don’t want to know what pushed me to this point. I know all you want to know is the just a gossip so you can talk about me with other people.

The problem here is not that I have scars. Problem is that they are on my wrist and easily visible. If they were a bit somewhere else, where those prying eyes couldn’t fall, I bet you would never in your life assume that I can be upset too.

I’m a normal person, who gets happy and who gets sad depending on situations and circumstances. I cry like you do. I smile like you do. These scars are just a reminder that I can’t come up with the terms of sharing some deep things with you. They are a reminder that I survived something, which perhaps you can never.

Don’t ask me “how it happened?” I don’t want to tell you. I’m just another girl you might see on streets and yet I have a story I have always wanted to share. I want you to treat me normal and not as some psychotic sadist just because I have scars.

I have scars and they are deeper than you can think because, after every day, there is one more in my heart.

Anonymously Tikki_ta

Author: tikki1

The loquacious Indian girl.

8 thoughts on “I Have Scars And They Are Deeper Than You Can Think”

  1. I’m too emotional right now to say anything coherent, but I just wanted to say thank you. Thank you.

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  2. I’m generally on the verge of committing, all that’s left is for someone to trigger my emotional state once more and I’m this close from physically doing it! I could honestly go on and unveil the sick way I’m treated and still am. I for sure feel and know I’m worthless, I’m like slowly dying inside, every part of me makes me want to bleed until I’m finished, I’ve been directly treated like this and it’s ALWAYS…. you’d be in awe knowing who makes me feel like shit. I just felt like pouring half of my emotions out really :/ ! Thank you if you read this x

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  3. Hey, there is nothing like this.

    Don’t feel sad when others can’t understand you.

    Take out your time to listen to yourself and understand the meaning.

    If you want, perhaps, we can talk it out. 🙂

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